The Greeks have bequeathed
us a great deal…. Socrates, Sophocles and Laryngitis. Philosophers, dramatists
and language itself. They modeled a form of democracy, warned (some of) us
about hubris and attributed much of what is inexplicable to a roster of gods.
In his monumental work on
Greek mythology, The Marriage of Cadmus
and Harmony, Roberto Calasso writes that the role of men is: slayer of
dragons. Woman are notable for their betrayals.
At this point I stopped
reading and paused. Hogwash, say I, after thinking about Brutus and Judas et tu all the heads of state who betrayed and lost a generation in 1914 and later in Vietnam while suffragettes slew the dragon, injustice, to get the vote. I never met a dragon-slayer among my buddies. Nor was I
ever betrayed by her or her.
He cited Ariadne and
Medea. Sure, the former may have defied her father, Minos, by laying down
thread, like breadcrumbs, for Theseus to find his way out of the labyrinth after
he killed the Minotaur. In some versions he married her (that’s the least he could
do); in others he just jilted her holding the thread. Who is the betrayer
there, I ask you?
Medea got bad ink for
killing her kids but that was less a betrayal than revenge. Besides, it was
only Euripides account. The other playwrights did not have Medea committing
infanticide though she is described as a sorceress. As a moon-goddess she was deemed a lunatic by the Greeks. It was not uncommon labeling women as such, their ways being
mysterious to men.
In fact it was husband Jason
who betrayed Medea by leaving to marry for money. You’d think the Golden Fleece
would have been enough.
It seems to me this notion
of female double-crossing was a fiction written by a fraternity of
power-grabbing, insecure and domineering men who believe that sexual intercourse is what happens with one consenting adult….which brings me to Harvey
Weinstein. He wrote the book.
Give a guy with an
appetite below the belt, in a position of power within a culture of attractive
women competing for parts. Put him in a room with one or two couches and the
next thing you know the only dragon he’s fighting is his own demons. Harvey
meet Donald. This is not eroticism, it is bullying and violation, Zeus asserting
his dominance. It is betrayal of self as well as one betrayal after another
against Mrs. Weinstein. Men betray but they don't call it that.
I wonder if the Greeks
would call the dozens of women coming forward against the gropers, harassers
and rapists as betrayers. That label is the twisted thinking of a newly emerged
patriarchy obsessed with curses and revenge. All this in the Golden Age of
Pericles upon which our Western Civilization is modeled. Harvey’s defense might
be: the devil made me do it; an old story for which there is no corresponding
myth except for Zeus, the predator-in-chief.
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